I think judgement is only natural, but we shouldn't say "see, it's okay to judge!" just because of that. Making judgement of someone at a certain point of time out of his appearance/behaviour is ok. What is not ok is that we sometimes extrapolate too much, and retain that judgement we have of that person for a long time. And then we "bitch" and "gossip". The concept of "judgement" seems to have went beyond an analysis of another person with our personal set of values. It now extends beyond time, and beyond one self. And what's the worst? People get so fixated on their judgement that they forget to take a second look at others to understand why they behave that certain way. Everybody deserves to be understood. Perhaps even the people who 'judge too much'.